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Caught beween family and love
1. I am in a relationship with a girl for the last 4-5 years and we have a good understanding with each other. My family is not accepting our relationship in any case. I don't want to make a choice between her and family. I tried to go with family but it is affecting my life, career and confidence. I feel if I marry the other girl, the marriage might not be successful. Secondly I am not sure if I am sexually strong? Please advice.
Abhi

Irregular Menses after delivery
1. I am a 31-year-old, mother of two children. My second daughter was born on June 29, 2007. I am feeding her and also taking contraceptive pills to avoid further pregnancy. My problem is that I am having irregular periods since the time I delivered my baby. I have heard that periods don't come during the feeding period. Is this normal. Do I need to consult a doctor.
XYZ

In love with two guys
1. I really don't know what to say, but I want to share and want to know what to do. I am a married woman and facing a lot of problems in my married life. Everything is not going right with us. In the meantime, I have met two guys. One of them is 2 years older than me. He loves me a lot but he is married and have 2 kids. He too is not happy in his married life. The other guy is 9 years younger than me and he is not married. Apparently he is in love with me too and he wants to marry me. I know I can't get married to the young guy. Please suggest me what should I do? I know that I won't be able to live with my husband. He is very old. He is not able to satisfy me. The married guy has taken permission from his mom and family that he wants to get married to me and they have no problem. Is it possible to fall in love with two different people at the same time.
Sona
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: Any woman who says or believes that she is in love with more than one guy at the same time does not understand love. Most women in such situations are equating love with sexual arousal or excitement or fun time with the guys. Most such women are not in love with the guys but are in love with themselves, and are only thinking of their current interests and enjoyment. You have not two but three options and you should exercise the third option of going for marriage counseling for improving your married life rather than going for option one, which involves breaking some other woman's household. The second option of getting married to a guy nine years younger seems more like cradle snatching. Make sure that he is not a minor.

Love
2. I am married and have a son. I made a friend through chatting and I started flirting with her. I never told her that I am married, but now I have started loving her. I tried avoiding her but have realised that I cannot do that. Can you advise me what to do.
Fardeen
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: You certainly are not in love. You are only addicted to flirting and chatting. You don't believe me! You change your identity and start chatting and flirting with other women. You sure are going to fall in love with a lots and lots of them. The girls on chat lines are also playing games. Falling in love does one no good, real happiness is rising in love.