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Attracted to cleavage
1. I am a 26-year-old married man. My problem is I have a strange fascination for women's cleavage. I get sexually aroused on seeing it and the desire to see more of it never seems to satiate. Could you please suggest how to exercise self control.
Goldy Chadha

Menstural problem
2. I had sex with my fiance around 15 days before my periods. When my date approached, I had heavy bleeding that ceased to stop even after 10 days. I consulted doctor, after which she gave me medicines. However, I didn't take them properly and the periods started again after 15 days, and this time too, the flow was quite heavy. Kindly suggest me what should I do?
Sweety

Beau is not confident
1. I met a guy through internet about one and a half year ago. We wrote mails to each other without meeting for about eight months. I was deeply impressed with him. We later met for a couple of hours when he came to my city. I was not impressed by his looks. Even then, when he proposed to me, I couldn't say no because I liked him. Gradually, I fell in love with him and we decided to meet again. But I have noticed that he is not as confident as he seemed to be in mails. He is highly qualified, has a very good job and a very high intellect but I don't understand why he is not as confident as other guys. He loves me a lot and I love him too but I am not able to make up my mind to marry him as I constantly compare his personailty with his mails. I have even told him this and would like to help him work on his personality. But I am afraid of hurting him. Please help.
YS
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: No boy wants to marry a nagging critic. Try to change his persona and he is going to flee from you.

Wife is longing for one-night-stand
2. I have been married for three years and have one kid. I will soon would be a father of another child. Recently, I discovered that my wife has a secret desire to have one-night-stand with other men. She is sexually active but is a little shy because of which we do not have a very great sex life. Do you think encouraging her to have such a fling will improve our sex life. I really want her to venture out and let her have sex with other men. Please advise.
Sudhakar
Reply From Dr. Prem Lata Chawla: Shy wife but a nymph! Your fantasy seems rather far-fetched. Even fantasies have some internal logic. For your own good don’t even think of suggesting this 'mis'adventure to your wife. Only a madcap will take this kind of risk.